“If I had a world of my own everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is because everything would be what it isn’t. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn’t be. And what it wouldn’t be, it would. You see?”
For those of you not familiar with this beautiful and strange arrangement the above is from one of literature’s most interesting characters – Lewis Carroll’s ‘Mad Hatter’. While I won’t implore a person to read ‘Alice in Wonderland’ I would encourage someone to give this statement some thought. We live in a world defined by the very principles outlined in his words. Beginning with the fairy tale characters of youth – Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny (American folklore) – and continuing with the stories perpetuated by religion we are fed a healthy diet of nonsense until we reach an age where these myths begin to come apart at the seems.
For some the transition from denial to acceptance is as easy as skipping a stone across a pond. To a handful of unfortunate others the destruction of this fantasy can be devastating. The oftentimes cold and heavy nature of life can, and frequently does, cripple an individuals development, ultimately leading to an emotionally retarded adulthood. The lies upon which our existence are constructed creates a fragile and false ecology that with even the slightest change in conditions can become so severely altered that the potential for survival ends in a zero sum game.
Navigating through existence can be a breathtakingly difficult task. We are in a world with as little truth to it as the one we spent our childhoods in. You see time and space while constant are of little use in a reality governed by perspective. Ideas give way to ideology, facts quickly change to fiction and the only logic is being illogical. In the spirit of this way of existing there becomes always more to lose and ever less to gain. Taking chances is no longer a potential for second place but not even an option. Slavery becomes the new freedom.
But take heart, there is a way to find the center of the ‘maze’. The key is very simple and lies in only a simple understanding. And that understanding is realizing that life, your life, my life, our lives, are not a single map but a series of maps. Maps that when viewed separately seem completely unconnected…of having little purpose or function and fail to give even the slightest glimpse into the nature of anything. But as a person begins to stack one on top of another…on top of another, on top of another this beautiful pattern emerges. Parts of this map will seem perplex, having amazing color and lines though no definable image. Whereas others will have clear but callous constructs.
It is taken in as a whole that the totality of all this will begin to make sense and the truth will emerge. You will discover that there is no truth and no untruth. There is no freedom and there is no slavery. Neither joy nor sadness are real. All that exist are time and space and perspective. The first two will always make sense, we can see neither but we know them to be so because of what occupies our life giving credence to them. The last is nonsense because it is governed by how we feel about what we see. If you (and I for that matter) can accept that what we feel may or may not be appropriate to what we see then whether or not something even makes sense or not will be of no consequence. Up could be down, blue could be green and that still will be fine with me…as it should be.